Couples Therapy
Couples Therapy is for Everyone
I work with couples navigating trust ruptures, emotional disconnection, identity shifts, parenting conflicts, nontraditional relationship structures, cultural tensions, and grief in relationships.
Every relationship carries a story—and sometimes that story hits a stuck point. Whether you’re navigating disconnection, betrayal, parenting differences, or identity shifts, couples therapy can help you move from avoidance to alignment. I work with couples of all kinds, supporting brave conversations, flexible thinking, and values-based connection—even when things feel messy or raw.
You don’t need to have it all figured out before starting. Let’s find a way through, together.
What is Couples Therapy?
Couples therapy is a safe, supportive space where you and your partner can work through challenges, strengthen your bond, and gain new tools for a healthier, more fulfilling relationship. Whether you're struggling with communication, trust, intimacy, or just want to reconnect, therapy helps you address these issues together.
How I work with couples:
I draw from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), and attachment theory. Sessions invite partners to:
Pause and reflect instead of react
Make room for big emotions with less blame
Clarify shared and individual values
Practice new ways of relating and responding
Rebuild connection through courageous communication
I don’t take sides. I hold the system and support each person with care and clarity.
Why do couples come in?
Because even strong partnerships can get stuck—and reaching out is a step toward reconnecting with what matters.
I welcome and affirm queer, trans, polyamorous, neurodiverse, and multicultural couples. Your relationship structure, identities, and lived experiences are respected here.
I work with couples navigating a wide range of challenges, including:
The same unresolved arguments that leave you both feeling stuck
Disconnection or difficulty rebuilding after a breach of trust
Balancing closeness and autonomy in your relationship
Grieving together when life doesn’t unfold as expected
Managing invisible labor, mental load, and gendered expectations
Feeling unsure about the future of your partnership—or how to move forward with clarity
Why Choose Couples Therapy?
Because relationships deserve intention, not just endurance—and support can help you move from surviving to reconnecting.
Deepen Communication: Build a foundation of curiosity, clarity, and empathy
Rebuild Trust: Repair after betrayal and foster a new sense of safety
Strengthen Connection: Rediscover emotional intimacy and shared meaning
Navigate Life Transitions: Adapt together through parenthood, loss, identity shifts, or career changes
Develop Conflict Resolution Skills: Turn conflict into opportunities for growth instead of distance
Your relationship is my client
Therapy isn’t about taking sides—it’s about tending to the space between you with clarity, care, and courage.
In couples therapy, I hold the relationship itself—not one partner or the other—as the client. That means we’ll focus on the system you’ve built together and the patterns that are keeping you stuck. I support both of you in turning toward your shared values and individual truths—not in assigning blame.
Together, we’ll explore what matters most in your partnership and what gets in the way of showing up for it. We’ll gently uncover cycles of disconnection and practice new ways of relating that make room for emotion, repair, and growth.
My goal is for both partners to feel heard, supported, and empowered to move forward—together or separately—with greater clarity and compassion.
It’s okay to come in with uncertainty. Therapy isn’t about taking sides—it’s about creating space for clarity, care, and courage. If you're ready to reconnect with what matters in your relationship, I’d be glad to support you.
Free Relationship Tools~
Rebuild Trust~
Stay Connected~
Free Relationship Tools~ Rebuild Trust~ Stay Connected~
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Download Relationship Check In
This gentle weekly check-in is designed to help couples pause, reconnect, and check the pulse of their relationship. Use it as a Sunday night ritual, a quiet coffee conversation, or a midweek reset. It’s not about fixing everything—it’s about staying connected to what matters.
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This simple, structured ritual helps couples pause after conflict, reconnect, and turn toward their shared values. It’s not about solving everything—it’s about tending to the space between you with care and curiosity.
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Download the Conflict Cycle Map:
When you're stuck in the same fight, this map helps you recognize the pattern, understand what’s underneath, and build new exits—together. -
Download the Reconnection Idea List
It is designed for couples who want to reconnect, even if things still feel strained, quiet, or unresolved. These are soft, low-pressure ways to care for the relationship while honoring emotional space.